Saturday, July 19, 2008

Simply Amazing...

Ron and I are married 40 years today! Through the years we have had our ups, downs, saddness and joys, yet there is no one with whom I would rather spend my time and my life. He is my very best friend!

So it is on this morning I began my reflection from Praying With Saint Paul, edited by Father Peter John Cameron, O.P. Actually, I was reading ahead, when much to my delight I found what I was reading must have been written for just Ron and me. And it brings comfort and joy, knowing that all these years the "Light" of Christ is the beacon by which we have been guided and secure. So it is, to family and friends, I say thank you, too.


Love and Service
John Janaro

"Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ."
(Ephesians 5: 21)

This text establishes the ultimate contrast not only for most intimate human relationships (those within the family , and especially those between husband and wife) but also for all human relationships. Human beings are called to live in communion with one another with a unity that comes from God and reflects his glory. Thus human relationships witness to the mystery of God insofar as they are constituted by love. Love is simple, and yet in this life it seems to complicated even for Christians. We are commanded to "love one another" and yet this love seems like an ideal to strive for rather than an established reality among us (thus we are exhorted to "forgive one another" continually). The "new law" of life in the Spirit is, indeed, a law of love. What is the real mystery of love? The law of love is self-giving. It is affirmation of the other person in a way that made the lover transcend himself and place himself "at the disposal" of the beloved. The radical nature of love in any relationship consists in each person giving himself to the other in love, and divesting himself of self-centeredness in order to "make space" for the one who is loved. Thus each person becomes capable of giving himself fully and receiving the gift of the other person by "emptying" himself. Christian "subordination" is defined ultimately by the self-giving love of Jesus Christ. The One who created all things freely took the lowest place in order to give himself to everyone and made space withing himself for everyone. Human being find themselves in a variety of relationships that imply different kinds and different levels of "authority" and "obedience." Christian love transforms both into self-surrendering love of Jesus, in whom we discover that "to server is to reign."

Almighty God, transform all our relationships according to the pattern of Jesus ' obedience to you and to the gift of himself to us

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Thanks Be to God!!!

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16 comments:

  1. Warmest congratulations to you on your 40th!!
    And this is as you say a very appropriate reflection. Obedience to the law of love is what it's all about, not lording it over the other person but being there for them, both submitting to the other in love, for love's sake, for God's own sake.

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  2. Thank you for you best wishes...Today we celebrate by working at Mother Theresa's Treasures, our church's thrift shop and tomorrow we will go to Gibault School for children at risk. The KofC here always offer these kids a cookout each summer. It's a grand way to celebrate 40 years of the gifts offered us by God Almighty!!!

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  3. Congradulations! You are one year ahead of me and my husband, so I know about the ups and downs, joys and sorrows shared over the years! What a wonderful reminder, too, about submitting in love!!! Thank you! Have a wonderful weekend!

    Juri

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  4. Congratulations to you! These are the wonders of the world, when you consider the divorce rate... Just marvelous!

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  5. Happy Anniversary Cathy! You and your dear husband are an inspiration to all of us.
    God bless you always.

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  6. Congratulations!!! Happy Anniversary!

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  7. Congratulations!
    It is wonderful to say, after 40 years :"He is my very best friend".
    You are blessed with a life of trust.
    All the best and hugs from,
    Sma

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  8. Congratulations! What joy and peace. Susan

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  9. sorry this is late.. Happy Anniversary!!

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  10. I thought I posted saying congrats but it must have been lost in cyber-space.

    Anyway, so happy for you! what an inspiriation you guys are!

    God Bless!

    Michele

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  11. I must say you all have been very nice...I have been very blessed and have no regrets!!!!

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  12. Happy Anniversary, Mrs. Cathy!!!
    May Saint Joseph and our Lady bless you both abundantly for many more years to come!!

    (sorry for being late!)

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  13. Happy, happy anniversary!!! Wishing you the very best.

    Blessings, Bia

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  14. I hope you had a lovely celebration! Did you ever renew your vows?

    Many thanks for your visits to Norwich Daily Photo. I hope that you enjoy the colours of summer on my blog.

    joy

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  15. May you celebrate many more years together!

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  16. I'm soooooo late, but many congratulations to you and your husband, Cathy! Truly an inspiration to your own children and all the young couples who witness your love and stability.

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